The topic that no one talks about, Sex after abuse.

A topic I wrote about a year ago and I believe it needs to be revisited. It is something that women rarely discuss and it is a topic that we need to be able to be open about.

NOT MY SECRET...overcoming the shame of sexual abuse

An anchor is defined as two things: 1.Aheavy device that is attached to a boat or ship by a rope or chain and that is thrown into the water to hold the boat or ship in place. 2.: Aperson or thing that provides strength and support.

In my mind that means an anchor can either be a weight or a strength.

After sexual abuse you need an anchor. But that anchor needs to be of strength and support. We don’t need something that weighs us down we need something that will support us, ground us, so that we can then be lifted up.

A good loving anchor will allow you to soar.

Herein lies the hard question that no one wants to talk about. How do we become intimate again after something that is supposed to be beautiful becomes a nightmare? How can a nightmare become a dream again? The…

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