Dear Mr. Ghost,
I would call you by your real name but there are too many to choose from. I would attach a picture of you but there are too many to choose from. So I have chosen punching bag Bob as he is as close to a ghost of a person I could find.
See when I first wrote my blog about my tribe, my group of survivor women who have bonded together, warning them of boundaries, safety, and online tricksters, it was just a warning. It was not until I was slandered, told lies about, and discriminated against that I did look into your “stories.” I learned then that you are a ghost.
Now first to clarify. When an individual gets a notification on their email from wordpress it has an IP address. It even offers to tell you where that IP address is. It is not against the law to look up what wordpress has provided. Interestingly, your IP address matches the phone number you gave me when you offered to let me call you whenever I needed to. It said that you were not infact where you said you were countless times.
Then you stated that I asked you to take pictures of your home in your country you claim to live in and asked where that was multiple times. So many times that you had to give me a fake adddress. I find that ironic because I DID infact ask for your address to send you a THANK YOU CARD. I sent a thank you to your supposed fake address with the only feather of my blessed owl. You told me you framed that feather. So if your address was fake, how did you get the card, and the feather, and how is it framed? Right.
Next you stated that after you made your egregious, defamation of character, lying accusations, you said that you had contacted an attorney and due to legal action I had taken down my blog posts that were slanderous to you. Lies. You never contacted an attorney. And my blog post was not slanderous to you. They do not and never did mention you. What you have on your blog is a blog post that has your name not mentioned anywhere. So why did you assume it was you and attack me personally? Perhaps because you had so much guilt, it was your only defense. To lie. Attack an innocent woman because you are infact a liar. IF you had contacted an attorney, that attorney would tell you that what you have done is criminal.
I contacted wordpress shortly after your post. They told me that during the hours that I was not logged in to wordpress there was a ton of activity on my blog to include removing of comments, followers,, and posts. I do not believe in coincidences. WordPress thankfully restored my blog to its original settings.
After some of my followers read your post they sent you their thoughts, their opinions, and their protectiveness over me. You chose to not post those comments. You only chose to post comments that furthered your agenda towards and against me. I wonder, were those even real comments?
I googled you. There is no law against that. Anyone can google anyone. There is a lot on the world wide web about you Mr. Ghost man. Some say you have bought your followers. Some say you have many personas. There are even law suits pending your stealing of logos.
But who is to say who you really are because I hear you are going by a different name now. How many names do you have?
You mention my daughter in your blog post. She is a minor. She has nothing to do with your attack against me. Putting my daughter in your heinous acts is low even for a Ghost.
You mention my mental health. You discriminate against those with mental illness even so far as to say I have become an abuser myself. I have never hurt a living soul or a living creature in my life. But you did paint quite a picture of me. Even got some women to feel sorry for you. 500 comments of an entire conversation on your blog that portrayed you as a completely different man than you portrayed to me. So you are vegan? Hmm. Interesting you sent me your meatloaf recipe that you said you ate in three days. You have 2 daughters? Hmm. You never mentioned them in the discussions we had over the things you shared with me privately about your life.
Google is fun. Just look up your own fubar account. And there you are during the time in which you claimed you were living on your little island. But which island. Every blog that has your name has a different story. I found many blogs written about you by you and you are in many places at once. All with a different life. But pictures do not lie and there you are with your wife and daughter. I wonder if anything you said was true. I doubt it.
Now see, as a courtesy to you, even though wordpress says they allow discrimination and bullying, I will not post all of the pictures I found of you or your locations. I will just say that that phone number you gave me…I googled that too and it comes back to the same “fake ” address you gave me to send you a thank you card.
You, Mr. Ghost are a disgrace to human kind. Do you call that discrimination? See, I call it the truth. And apparetnly wordpress allows freedom of speech. I tried to report your abusive content because it is infact abusive. To call out a rape victim, use that against her,, and call her an abuser because you yourself got caught, just makes you pathetic. I get to say that because of the whole freedom of speech thing. My blog is about the truth. Only the truth. You, are a liar.
Now, I did not think you were a predator. You thought you were a predator based on my post. After reading your post, google searching all of our lies, and reading through your own comments lying to women and telling them just what they want to hear, I would say you are no less than a criminal who has many fake personas and who is so pissed off that you got so wrapped up in your own lies that you busted yourself, your only come back was to attack an innocent woman.
So to sum up, Mr Ghost man, I know the truth about you. I know you do not believe in God but He knows the truth about you too. My blog posts were not taken down by me or by any legal action against me. Your entire blog post was written to further your lies, further your agenda (which I am not sure what your agenda really even is other than lying) and discrimination against a woman with PTSD and anxiety due to abuse and rape. Your poor me, I’ve been attacked by this woman’s post so I must retaliate is nothing more than your own guilty conscience.
People can read your slander and believe you. They can look at bits and pieces of my blog and judge me. They can support your newest story of the week. But YOU invited my daughter and me to be flown out to your supposed country. I DID ask for pictures innocently because I thought you would want to show me where you would be one day flying us to. And being you are a photographer and all, so that story went.
I rolled over. I was a bit conflicted over what to do. Do I justify any of this? Do I just let it go and walk away? Then my blog was tampered with. Then my friends said they were unfollowed. Then they told me you didn’t approve their comments of standing up for me. And you know what? I’ve been on the floor, stomped on, raped, molested, and I kept silent. My blog is about NOT BEING SILENT.
I don’t know who you are. You are just Mr. Ghost man from now on. You are not real to me. But you are someone who, Ghost or not, just like a PTSD memory who will not go away, needed to be addressed. I’ve been bullied before. I know bullies. I’ve never had a Ghost bully. Usually the bullies I encounter at least admit to what and who they are. My voice will never be silenced again.
Go away now Mr. Ghost. You may decide to not publish my tribe’s comments but there are many out there that know you are a liar. Oh and a tribe is not just for Native American’s btw. And oh yeah usually Native American Indians don’t call them selves Indians. They call themselves Native American Indians. Oh gosh and one more thing…learn how to pronounce Namaste correctly. Really if you are going to try and perfect a fake persona, at least research it a little. Oh gosh and one MORE thing, vegan means no cheese. No animal products. Just because my daughter was vegan does not mean you can steal her story and make it yours. Come up with your own material.
You thought that you could target a rape victim and she would roll over and play dead because you’ve read her blog and seen her struggles? You thought wrong. Now go away. You’ve wasted far too much of my time.
The innocent woman you targeted.